Letting Go
So this past Sunday I had a conversation with a close friend of mine let me call him Wesley. The back story is that we’ve had a good friendship and this was the relationship I invested the most in last year. I hadn't realised how emotionally draining the relationship had become for me. To him I was a confidant and as I got more and more emotionally invested I developed feelings somewhere along the line I thought that we could make a great couple even as other men approached me he was at the back of my mind. Misguided as they were the feelings were strong and the worst part is almost all interactions I had with him left me feeling worse than before. Something I could have been more conscious of was atmosphere. People carry different atmospheres and energies which are transferable. Overall our relationship has been good, he taught me a few things and he contributed to my growth but over the last year, it became an u...